11. February 2011 by admin.

Isn’t it wonderful, living in such historic times?  Well, there are good elements of history and then there are bad.  The downfall of Hosni Mubarak is a good element.  It shows promise and hope for a future in this world, something momentous and affirming.  The Egyptian people have taken back their lives and presented a statement to the region that power is granted by the people, not taken by a few chosen ones.  Not a bad start to the year.

Call me an idealist, but for me things began changing as the Soviet Union began to collapse.  This was followed by the destruction of the Berlin Wall and the reunification of the two Germanies.  Imagine, in a few years’ time there will be people who will have never known a divided Germany. 

We’ve seen relative peace break out in North Africa and the Middle East and while our focus has shifted toward central and eastern Asia, things have trended toward a common theme: knowledge begets power.  The knowledge of an incident of corruption and violence in Egypt has ultimately led to the downfall of an autocrat.  Facebook was the rallying point around which hundreds of thousands of Egyptians could coalesce to bring about (relatively) peaceful revolution.

How powerful is this knowledge?  Let’s say that the fear of spreading knowledge has led several countries to restrict the access of its citizens to information in a vain hope of avoiding a similar fate.  But let’s face it, the tide has turned already.  Even in the most impoverished of nations, people have their cell phones and their internet and are able to communicate without the knowledge or consent of their governments.  And even in places like North Korea where the people in power have the populace firmly under their boot, information trickles in.

Information becomes knowledge, knowledge is shared, and soon you have people who view knowledge (and access to information) as a right, not a privilege.  What is even funnier about this scenario is that even the most enlightened countries will have to face their own little revolutions as more people use the information that’s available to develop knowledge and then, to act on it.

Look at what has happened with the whole Wikileaks situation.  We all knew that the United States had its own share of secrets but the sheer volume of information that became available is staggering.  The big concern is that humanity is not yet mature enough to know how to handle this overload of information.  Or that we know how to determine what is fact from hyperbole from fiction.  For me, this means that we, as a world, need to ensure that everyone has full and complete access to unfettered and unbiased education.

I don’t just mean schools.  I mean that every human being has the right to learn how to learn.  This is distinct from learning information since anyone can learn stuff, but learning how to learn is the building block on which the future is built.  Sure, parents want their children to be just like them, believe just like them, but the reality is that every child has the right to choose for themselves.  More and more these days we hear about children diverging from the philosophies and beliefs of their parents, often to a diametrical opposite.  And that is good.  Because I firmly believe that while we all may disagree on how we get there, we all have the same set of goals in mind: peace, prosperity, and security.  And while some of us still think this is a zero sum game where someone has to lose for them to gain, I believe that we will discover that we can all succeed equally, if we choose to work at it.

So the changes in the Middle East are beginning and my heart is singing the possibilities of the future.  Where are we heading?  When will we get there?  I just hope that I am alive to see some of the major events unfold toward a bright and glorious future for all of humanity.  I can’t wait!

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24. December 2010 by admin.

And so, with the flourish of a pen, the President eliminated one of the major barriers to equality for gay men and women: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.  It’s funny to hear how the right wing fanatics are beating the airwaves with claims that the military will collapse, that we’ll have to reinstitute the draft and that this decision will destroy our ability to rule the world..er..maintain our safety in these troubled times.  Please.  First, by saying these things, you make the United States sound like a weak nation.  How is it that other countries can integrate their militaries but the United States cannot?  I mean, if the British can do it why can’t its former colony?  Are we less than them?  That’s what they will have you believe.

And then there are the claims that suddenly, because they now can come out, gays will be showering with their straight counterparts in the military and sexually assaulting them.  Since there have been gays in the military since there has been a military, I seriously doubt anything will change.  In fact, it may help to alleviate the sexuasl issues that have plagued the military of late, perpetrated, I might add, by straight men against straight women.  The assault cases against cadets in the Air Force academy were not gay.  In fact, if you look at the statistics, gay men and women tend not to be the problem, straight men are the problem.  I don’t hear any call for “outlawing” them.  Ah well.

And then there are the concerns that this is just the first step toward giving gays and lesbians full equality!  Oh, the horror of it!  Soon we’ll have gay marriage and then you’ll be able to marry animals and children will have to grow up knowing there are gay people in the world.  Um…ok.  Why are these people so concerned with me?  Don’t they have their own lives to live?  Don’t they have their own marriages to destroy?  I mean, if marriage is such a sacred institution, then why is divorce allowed?  And why do 50% of marriages fail?  I would suggest that if these people are so afraid of the lives that others live that they begin with their own lives first.  He who is without sin, first stone, ect.  When your house is in order, then you can come and check out mine.  You’ll find it’s cleaner, more organized, and fabulously stylish.  Please!

So, here’s my proposed timeline:  In 2011 we will see the fall of Proposition 8 in California.  Civil Unions will begin the erosion of discrimination against gay marriage which will culminate in the codification of civil marriage sometime in 2013 or so, allowing religious marriage to supplement, but not control, the institution of marriage.  Sounds like a dream but then, the repeal of DADT was once thought to be a fantasy as well.  Here’s to our dreams coming true in our lifetimes!

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3. November 2010 by admin.

And so we come to the end of another political season.  I know for myself and for most friends of mine it couldn’t have come soon enough. Unfortunately we’re going to be hearing a lot of pundits argue semantics about whether this is a referendum on the current president or if this is as I suspect merely a correction in the natural political order.

The fact is, it isn’t good for anybody to have a single political party in power.  And while I, personally, believe that the Democrats didn’t go far enough in achieving their goals, it does the political process good to know that you have to compromise from time to time in order to move your business forward.  Still, I think the problem was going to be that the Republicans will feel emboldened by a string of victories that really has nothing to do with the Republican Party or the Democratic Party, but in fact a general antipathy toward the entire government process.

So, do we really think that much of anything is going to change in Washington?  I’ve been around long enough to know that that will not be the case.  Although, it is my fervent hope that the Republicans will actually begin to stand for something again, instead of falling for anything.  In a recent discussion I had with several friends of mine about the political process, I reiterated my sincere admiration for the political process as it exists in Germany.  Mind you most Western (and some Asian) governments do have a similar democratic structure to them, but as it is here in the United States, too many of these political structures are dominated by one or two parties.  If youWhile the Italians have the same number of political parties as the Germans do, they don’t quite seem to be able to pull together in any fashion to be able to govern appropriately.  Still, it does seem to work for them.  Commentary centered on the fact that there are 3 to 5 major parties and another five or so minority parties and in order for any group to govern, have to enter into alliances and partnerships.  Example that was given was when one of the major parties had to ally itself with the new Greens party in order to form a stable government.  The fact is, the United States doesn’t have the same level of ideological passion that these are the nations do and so instead of trying to develop a party around a specific ideology, we tend to lump ourselves into one of two categories.

The problem with only having a two-party system, is that the parties themselves try to be all things to all people in order to garner the most votes.  Simply put, this does not work.  The fact is that we are too divided to come together under just two banners.  And we, as the people who elect politicians, have to compromise on our own beliefs in order to fit within one of the two political parties.  It also means, that politicians assume that when people vote for them, they are voting for them and their beliefs.  All too often it’s actually the opposite, and they received a vote that was against their competition. 

Still, this is a political system that we have today and until there is the opportunity for the creation of a third and preferably a fourth political party, we will have to figure out how to make the system work for us.  It has been an interesting few months, but I’m glad to see it over.  Now we see the consequences of our actions.

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20. October 2010 by admin.

I am not a politician nor am I running for office but I am sick and tired of the politicians and political groups who are simply lying to us during this political season.  All of these negative ads reinforce my belief that our nation needs to redesign its political process.  There are three things in particular that I would like to address.

First, let’s talk about the so-called “failed” stimulus program.  To begin with, the stimulus program was initiated during the Bush administration and simply continued under President Obama.  With this fact in place, you have to realize that it means that Democrats voted for a Republican president’s agenda to stimulate the economy.  The fact that a Democratic president continued his policies means that it was a good plan to begin with.Then let’s talk about the concept of the stimulus package having failed.  In fact every political party and most government organizations recognize that if the stimulus package had not been enacted, our economy would have suffered a depression instead of the severe recession that occurred.  Yes, every state in the union lost jobs, but the impact of the economic downturn would have been much more severe if the stimulus program had not been in place.And to all those politicians and political groups who claim only that jobs were lost, I ask you to look at all the construction jobs, and all the economic impact of these programs that were funded by stimulus funds.  The stimulus program did not fail.  It may not have been as successful as most people would have liked, but it did serve its purpose.

Second, let’s talk about healthcare.  I really hate all of these ads that make it sound as though health care is a bad thing.  The fact is, in my opinion, we did not go far enough toward improving health care for citizens in this country.  I also hate the fact that politicians and political groups are using the cost savings of $500 billion from Medicare as a cut to the program instead of the cost savings that it actually is.  The amount reflects the savings that result from the elimination of duplication of services and oversight that was necessary to pay for the healthcare program.  It is amazing to see mostly Republicans claiming that cost savings and efficiency are bad.And finally, all of the conversation about the increase to the federal debt has really pissed me off.  Let’s not forget it was a Republican administration that completely destroyed a budget surplus and sent us into this spiraling debt sinkhole.  The fact that the federal government has had to spend billions of dollars to forestall a collapse of our economy was not the fault of the people in power today, it was, in fact, a true test of their leadership in keeping this country from falling apart.

Unfortunately, I am afraid that most people in this country are going to listen to the negative ads and the negative campaigning and will make poor choices when they go to the polls this election season.  While I do tend to vote Democratic, of the 16 offices for which I voted, four were actually votes for the Republican candidate because I felt they were the better candidate.  The fact is that most Americans will not take a vote, they will simply see the party of the person they are voting for and choose them based on an affiliation that has little or no meaning.  It will be interesting to see in two years whether people have “buyer’s remorse” or not.  Just remember, you get what you vote for.

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4. July 2010 by admin.

Today we celebrate our declaration of independence from our colonial masters and the beginning of an amazing nation.  The United States of America is a unique conglomeration of peoples from around the world.  Imperfect, to be sure; parochial in ways; but truly, more capable than any other nation in the world.  And maybe that’s what makes the United States such an amazing country: our potential.  We can be the most caring and the most hateful, we can come together and fall apart, but when it is said and done, there is enough potential here to overcome every challenge that faces us.  The question is, are we willing to face those challenges?   Can we achieve our potential?  That is the question for the 5^th of July.  Today, we celebrate all that we have achieved and the potential for future achievements.

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27. March 2010 by admin.

Can I say that I hate the anger being directed at our politicians in Washington?  How dare these people vent with the hatred and vitriol they have shown, and without regard even to political party!  This is an undirected and misdirected venting that serves no purpose and actually highlights the ignorance and stupidity of the people doing the venting.

Let’s begin with the fact that the people making these decisions in Washington were duly elected by the majority of the voters to represent us in making the laws that govern this nation.  If these people disagree with the decisions of the politicians, they have the right to vote them out of office in the next election.  But to threaten them?  I bet they didn’t even vote in the last election.

And then there was the homemade sign in the back of a BMW 740iL parked next to me at the grocery store this afternoon.  One Big Ass Mistake America.  Oh, funny, taking the name of the President and turning it into a comment.  Let’s see, would that have made him Big Ugly Stupid Hick?  Hey we can all play that game.  But does it serve any purpose?  Once again, venting by attacking the people who were duly elected by the majority of the nation.  Huh.

Does anyone think anymore?  Or is it all just knee-jerk reaction, hatred, vitriol, and stupidity by people upset that their viewpoint lost in the last election.  You know what?  Get over it.  You lost and we won and now it’s your turn to sit and watch as the nation heads in a direction you don’t like.  I happen to think that we are heading in the right direction…well, our politicians are, some of our people are definitely heading in the wrong direction.  Wonder if they happen to be Republicans or used-to-be-Republicans-but-they-were-too-liberal-Tea-Partiers.  Huh.

Let’s get back to honest and open dialog with an understanding that the loser has to accept reality and not attack those who represent us in government.  Debate, I can work with.  Hate hurts everyone.

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5. September 2008 by admin.

Well, the Democratic National Convention was here in town (Denver) and we just finished with the Republican National Convention in the state where my brother and his wife live (Minnesota) so this has been an interesting connection with my family this year.  But now that they are done, I have to comment on them.

First, it is apparent who the party in power is because of the level of rancor of the protesters at the RNC.  There was a lot of anger and frustration vented in St. Paul.  And yet the people in the Xcel Energy center remain, in my view, out of touch with the common people.  I mean, really!  He owns seven houses and thinks middle class ends in the millions.  (Yes, I know he was jokingly unsure when he gave the figure)  And his pit bitch VP?  She is vicious and mean and vile, the epitome of bitch, and somehow a true representation of the party.  I mean, just look at the speeches by the two parties.  The Republicans seem to know all about the plans and future actions of the Democrats since they kept telling us what would happen.

 - A slight aside, there is a political ad on TV right now that tells you what the Democrats will do including deficit spending, higher taxes, etc.  History proves that the last balanced budget with a surplus was created by a Democrat and destroyed by a Republican…um, please get your facts straight before you try to spout them.

Anyway, the Democrats tended to be a bit more positive in their spin of things, not telling us what the Republicans will do, but what they will do when they get into the White House.  Mind you, they are not absolved of the vitriol and hate mongering, they just tended to focus more on their own agenda instead.  And I guess that’s one of the things that really toasts my buns about the political process is that candidates are so afraid of standing for something that they turn to denigrating their opponents instead.

Well, let me be clear that in my view, people who tear down their opponents are cowards and obviously don’t have any principles on which to stand.  Because people who don’t stand for anything will fall for anything.  Ok, so I stole that one from somewhere.  But it holds true.  If the only way for you to rise above your opponents is to tear them down, then maybe you aren’t worth electing.

Back to the rant, while I appreciate the efforts of John McCain to try and protray himself as a maverick and reformer, my problem is that he left that camp a number of years ago.  When I lived in Arizona and he was my senator, I loved his style and approach, but he gave that up in an effort at appealing to the “masses” and since about 1998ish he has watered down his beliefs.  He’s had 26 years to make changes and while he did try for some 18 years, he lost it before the millenium.  For that, I will have to disbelieve him.

And that’s why he brought Sarah Palin to the ticket.  Oh, believe me, I understand his tactics (and anyone who thinks this is anything other than tactics needs to drink from the fountain of reality) and I even made a comment to my staff the night before the announcement that McCain’s best choice would be a woman for his VP.  If course, I was thinking that it would be someone with a little more name recognition, but there you have it.  However, making her the attack dog for the campaign?  There is a difference between a strong woman and a bitch.  Sarah Palin is a bitch.  Hillary Clinton is a strong woman (most of the time, she had her bitchy moments) so the thought that the Republicans are actually gaining women?  Not the ones who see the hate for what it is.

Joe Biden?  He was the wrong choice as well.  I admire Barack Obama’s campaign for the message they are getting out and the fact that they tend to maintain their positive message more than their counterparts.  But a Senatorial veteran like Biden?  No, Obama had the chance for the dream team and I think he made the wrong choice for the wrong reasons.  In this case, I believe that he is afraid of Hillary and her power.  He had the message, she has the experience, and together they would have been very strong.  And, I bet that McCain would have gone with one of his white male compatriots instead of the Alaskan Mala-not-so-mute.

And here’s one particular rant that the Republicans really have to get right if they ever figure to recover their standing as the party of Lincoln: 93% of the delegates were white?  Ok, if you do not have your delegates representative of the country as a whole?  No wonder you don’t get it.  And 1/2 the delegates had a net worth in excess of $1/2 million.  Damn.  Middle class is basically $35,000 to $80,000, according to the local paper.  Even if we stretch that to $250,000 a year in income (which is 3 times the top of the range) those who “represent” the Republican voters of this nation are NOT representative of this country. 

Ok, so that was a rant, but I truly am angry with the political process in this country.  The two party system doesn’t allow us to truly express our beliefs since the “big tent” or “party umbrella” has to cover far too many people.  While I don’t think the multi-party system always works (see, Italy) it does force people to choose their philosophies and stand for something.  I see the German political process as a successful process for standing for something.  The best part of this is that while you tend to fragment into blocs based on your personal beliefs, the only way to make a government is to compromise.  You develop alliances and work out compromises to get a government together meaning that strength comes from your beliefs and alliances.

Ok, off the soapbox.  This year I am remaining with the Democrats although I vote for the best candidate regardless of party.  I voted for Reagan because he was the best candidate.  I did not vote for Bush, either time and feel smug enough to laugh at people who did.  You get what you vote for and this year, I am definitely voting for change.  The risks of change are much less than knowing what you are getting.  And I think everyone knows what we would get.

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11. April 2008 by admin.

It just gets better and better. Ms. Kern is not only a coward and a hypocrite, she is an out-and-out liar as well.

Apparently she met with the fine folks from PFLAG and during the course of their talks, Ms. Kern stated that she agreed with the idea that gay men and women should not be fired from their jobs because they are gay. (We are worse than terrorists but shouldn’t be fired because of it?) She said this twice in the conversation. But when she went back out into public, she denied ever saying anything of the kind! She claimed that PFLAG had “misrepresented” her comments.

In a delicious twist or irony, her perjury came to light quickly when PFLAG released the recordings of the conversation they had with her (and which was recorded with the consent of her staff!) where you can hear Ms. Kern say, in her own words, that she believes gays should not be fired from their jobs. Oy! So what we have here is not a failure to communicate but an appalling lack of brains from an individual who 1) cannot think for herself and therefore mimics words she hears in her church and 2) tailors her conversation to the audience even when it means she says two things that are complete opposites. So, does that make her a liar, or just a very good politician? Well, neither. A good politician wouldn’t be caught lying.

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21. March 2008 by admin.

Everyone should have heard of Sally Kern by now.  She’s that republican lawmaker from Oklahoma who was caught on tape comparing homosexuality to terrorism and saying that we are more of a threat to America than Al-Quaeda.  Uh huh.  Well, I was going to stay out of the fray considering that so many more eloquent people have spoken and written about this incident.  But then she goes and does something that gets to the very core of what I despise about people these days.

Ellen DeGeneres called her up to talk to her about her views and she refused to open the conversation.  Why?  She said she doesn’t want to walk into the lion’s den.  Um, hello?  Did you just say that you are afraid to defend your position?  Are you telling me that you made these statements but don’t believe in them enough to justify them to others?  You hypocritical coward!  This is exactly why I don’t believe politicians and people in general.  If you are not willing to defend your positions then shut up.  You don’t have the convictions of your beliefs then don’t tell me what they are!

I will challenge anyone in their beliefs because it is only by challenging our own beliefs that we strengthen them.  I mean, come on, if your belief system can’t handle a challenge then why do you believe in it?  Convenience?  Inertia?  I know that most people who believe in a religion came by it because someone “gave” it to them.  Very few people seek out religion by challenging themselves and the various options before coming to a decision.  They accept the religion handed to them by their parents, or find acceptance in a group that happens to be a church.  But then they don’t challenge themselves or their beliefs leaving themselve, I believe, weaker for the lack of effort.  It means we don’t have to think for ourselves, something mankind has been good at.

But the point is simple: if you don’t believe in what you say or feel strongly enough to be challenged for it, then stop spouting it in public and then running away when someone calls you on it.  Keep your weak beliefs to yourself and stop trying to force others to believe as you do.  It’s not a strong enough argument.

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9. October 2007 by Rob.

Ok, I have been quiet about him since he first came into the light (and out of the closet, sort of) but now he’s gone and made comments that just got to me. So I have to ask the first question that came to my mind when I heard him talking about having a “wide stance” in the bathroom. Um, Larry, weren’t you wearing pants when you were in the stall? And when you were wearing those pants in the stall, weren’t you doing your “business” (I heard you say that’s why you were in there) and if so, wouldn’t your pants have been somewhere down between your knees and ankles?

If you were, in fact, in the stall trying to “cleanse the colon,” how wide a stance could you possibly have had? I mean, you’re not that fat, so your pants should have been restricting the “travel” of your legs to a reasonable distance. So you either had your pants at your knees and looked like a strange travois with your feet splayed apart or you weren’t wearing your pants in which case I would have to assume that you really were not in the stall for digestive waste removal. I mean, really!

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